Thursday, December 15, 2011

Date Night - Married Style

Ross and I had "date night" last Saturday night. We went to dinner and then saw "It's A Wonderful Life" at a theater downtown. We had a great time together on the date, but when we came home, we discovered the difference between a "dating date night" and a "married date night."

Dating date night consisted of Ross picking me up, going out to dinner, maybe doing some shopping, going to a movie, or renting a movie and watching it at home house, and then Ross would go home.

Married date night (at least last week) consisted of Ross picking me up on the side of our driveway as he's backing the car out of the garage (there's too much stuff in the garage for me to walk around to the passenger door and get in the car while the car is still in the garage), going to dinner, going to a movie, and then coming home to fix the broken washing machine. Sounds romantic, huh?

Well, let me tell you, there's nothing more romantic than working side by side with your husband fishing your clothes out of a washing machine full of water and then trying to wring them out as best as possible, knowing full well you won't do half as good of a job as the spin cycle on your washing machine. And, don't forget the part where you have to mop up the water that spilled out of the drain hose when it was unhooked to drain out all of the water from the machine to try and figure out what the problem is. All of this because the washing machine won't kick into the rinse/spin cycle.

This was how we ended our date night last weekend. It really wasn't that bad and we did laugh at it when we were both pulling out clothes out of the water saying to ourselves, "I guess this is what you do on date night when you're married!"

Ross was able to figure out what was wrong with the washing machine and ordered a $10 replacement part to fix it. We are so thankful that's all it amounted to. $10 and a little extra work at the end of a date night is much better than paying $$$ to call a repairman, or even buy a new washing machine.

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

It's A Wonderful Life

Saturday night, Ross and I saw "It's A Wonderful Life" at the Gillioz Theatre in downtown Springfield. The Gillioz is an old theatre that was restored a few years back, but still has the old time look and feel. I love seeing shows there!

Last Christmas we saw "Elf" at the Gilloiz, and this year I was hoping they'd show another Christmas movie. I was so excited to see they were showing "It's A Wonderful Life" and asked Ross if we could go. I was really surprised to learn that Ross had never seen the movie before and was excited to see it with him. I was a little concerned that he wouldn't like it because it's an old movie and done in black and white. And I do love the movie, but sometimes find myself getting bored with it towards the end and was afraid he would, too.

As we were walking out, I was happy to hear Ross tell me that he really enjoyed the movie. He thought it was really good and the black and white didn't bother him.

I've seen the movie lots of times over the years, but this time I thought a little more about it while watching it. I like one of the quotes from Clarence, the angel who is sent from Heaven to help George Bailey:

             "Strange, isn't it? Each man's life touches so many other lives. When he isn't
               around he leaves an awful hole, doesn't he?"

I thought about this quote in relation to my own life and all the people who have touched my life or helped me out along the way and how different I would be had it not been for those people. Some of the people came with good experiences and some came with bad experiences. I wouldn't trade them, even the worst of the worst, for anything because all of those have molded me into who I am today. And I like who I am today!

I also thought about all the people I have touched or helped and thought how different their lives would be had I not been there for them. I can name some situations where I know I've been a big help, and I bet there are others where I've helped, but have no clue I even did anything at all. Won't it be neat someday in Heaven to see all of the "behind the scenes" things that only God knows about?!

One thing I know for sure is that it TRULY IS a wonderful life!

Monday, December 12, 2011

Chicago!

I started this post almost two months ago now and am finally getting around to finishing it.....

Last week we took a mini-vacation to Chicago! We've talked about going to Chicago for about a year now and decided September was the time to go. We flew out of Kansas City and of course, I (well, actually Ross requested it...:) ) took the traditional "here we are on the plane getting ready to leave for vacation" photo!


The flight from Kansas City to Chicago is very short, right at one hour, so before we knew it we landed in Chicago! We took the train/subway into the city and then one bus ride and a few blocks walk later we were checked into our hotel. Our hotel was in a great location - one block east of the 600 north block of Michigan Avenue.

We decided to walk over to Navy Pier and on our way came across this and couldn't resist a picture!


We walked around Navy Pier for a bit and then took a boat tour through the city on the Chicago River and also out on Lake Michigan. I loved the tour through the city. We learned all about the buildings and history behind them. The tour on the lake wasn't quite my favorite. We were on a large speed boat and the lake was very choppy. That, along with the wind and water splashing up at us made for a very chilly boat ride!








View from Lake Michigan
Navy Pier

After Navy Pier we took a bus over to the Willis Tower (formerly the Sears Tower). We went up to the Skydeck and looked out over the city. It was about 7:30pm so it was dark out, but was still very pretty with all the city lights. When we headed back downstairs we were pretty tired, so grabbed some dinner and went back to our hotel room.

Monday morning we had breakfast and headed out for a day of museuming. We did so much stuff on Monday! We went to the Field Museum, the Planetarium, the Aquarium, and walked to Buckingham Fountain and Millennium Park to see "the bean." We ended the day with dinner at the Hard Rock Cafe - one of my absolute favorite restaurants ever!
This is the view from our hotel room. If you look to the left of the building in the middle you can see a rainbow. We woke up to that Monday morning!



4-D movie at the aquarium.




At "the bean."


Ross SO loves taking pictures with me!




Tuesday we spent most of the day at the Museum of Science and Industry. This is a very neat museum with lots of interactive exhibits. Tuesday night we had "Chicago style pizza" and then hung out in our hotel room and watched The Biggest Loser - we sure do know how to vacation!

Wednesday morning we took the train/subway back to the airport and flew back to Kansas City. Many thanks to Larry and Wanda for taking us to and picking us up from the airport!

Simulating the vortex of a tornado.





Thursday, December 8, 2011

Three Years And Counting

Today is the three-year anniversary of when Ross and I started dating! I remember that night so well and often like to repeat our "define the relationship" conversation to Ross. Read more about it here!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Thanksgiving Recap

We had a nice Thanksgiving holiday. I took Wednesday off from work and did a little Christmas shopping. On Thanksgiving morning I walked the Turkey Trot 5K (3.1 miles) with my dad. This is the fourth year we have walked it together and hope to continue doing it in the future.

Later that morning, Ross and I drove up to Kansas City for Thanksgiving dinner with his family. A couple that Larry and Wanda have been friends with for quite some time always join them for Thanksgiving dinner, along with their kids. After dinner we enjoyed dessert and playing "Win, Lose, or Draw." It was a very nice time!

Friday we did a little shopping - not early Black Friday shopping, more like 11am Black Friday shopping - and then hung out with one of Ross' high school friends for a while before heading back to Springfield. 

Saturday we had my parents, my sister and her family, my aunt and uncle from Omaha, and my cousins from Texas over for lunch and an afternoon of visiting. It was a great time just hanging out together.